With a basis in Attachment Theory and using data from John Gottman's research on successful marriages, we believe that using quantitative data and the principles of mediation is the best approach to avoiding conflict and creating a lasting secure bond.
Our process offers a method to build trust, set expectations, understand your partner's perspective and needs as well as assess and set goals for the relationship together. This can all be done while learning how to effectively navigate conflict and misunderstandings using principles of mediation and our Structured Empathy Exercise.
Our process provides a sense of security through the clarity that comes from knowing what your relationship offers, what is important to you and your partner as individuals, and how to objectively improve your bond with the help of quantitative data and pointed and intentional structured communication.
It is no secret that the foundation of a good relationship is understanding, honesty and communication. We offer a program that sets up a structure for the relationship to have all three:
Step 1: Fill out our Ideal Relationship Questionnaire to determine your ME (personal Metric of Emotion).
Step 2: Schedule a time for your Relationship Analysis. (Takes place via Zoom with a trained Relational Mediator)
Step 3: You and your partner decide how to best use the data and you select a relationship path forward.
Using data, we can track your relationship's evolution and help couples identify and achieve the relationship's full potential by combining their own individual goals and priorities. The Same Page process will create a structured way to have constructive conversations regarding important topics that tend to be avoided or only come up amid conflict when it is far more difficult to reach an understanding.
Think of this as preventative medicine for your relationship. Let us get you on the Same Page and take the guess work out of relationships.